DBT Validation Basics Handout

Validation is a vital component of any relationship, including your relationship with yourself. Practicing validation allows you to recognize emotions, thoughts, and behaviors as reasonably and accurately as possible in a specific situation. Meanwhile, invalidation happens when someone’s feelings and emotions are dismissed. The DBT Validation Basics Handout offers simple definitions of validation, self-validation, and invalidation, and explains the reasons why validating others is important. At the end of the handout, clients are reminded that they can accept another person’s feelings without necessarily accepting inappropriate behaviors. Using this handout encourages kids and teens to practice validation regularly, which improves the quality of their relationships. Caring adults can model validation at home by actively listening to their children’s emotions without dismissing them. For example, instead of saying, “Don’t be sad,” adults can respond with empathy by saying, “I understand