How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations

Relationships are in crisis, largely due to our inability to discuss differences without polarization. Recognizing that objection to difference is a fundamental human problem, New York Times bestselling authors Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt introduce a transformative solution in How To Talk With Anyone About Anything. They present the Safe Conversations Dialogue process, a skill that fosters connection beyond difference, making healthy relationships possible. Historically, conversations have often taken the form of monologues, where we believe our perspective is the only "truth." This leads to tension and conflict when others don’t share our viewpoint. Many of us struggle to listen actively or understand others' perspectives, resulting in polarization—not just in personal relationships, but also in our workplaces, political discussions, and religious communities. This pattern has contributed to anxiety, frustration, anger, and even violence. It’s clear that we need a